Saturday, May 16, 2026

What's the deal with the Holy Spirit?

by Ps Peter Lim

Big Idea:
The holy spirit is not a force to be used, but a divine Person who relates to, speaks to and leads us.

John 14:15-26
“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments. [16] I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may be with you forever; [17] that is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He abides with you and will be in you. [18] “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. [19] After a little while the world will no longer see Me, but you will see Me; because I live, you will live also. [20] In that day you will know that I am in My Father, and you in Me, and I in you. [21] He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” [22] Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” [23] Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. [24] He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. [25] “These things I have spoken to you while abiding with you. [26] But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.


The Father will send them the Holy Spirit

He is fully God, the 3rd person of the Godhead

He has a name emotion will and a personality he interacts with us who can be affected by us, Jesus call Holy Spirit as our helper

He's a legal advocate who stands with us being conviction to sin

A teacher
A comforter
Holy Spirit continues with what Jesus was doing

Greek word is Parakletos
- One who comes alongside us to help us

The Holy Spirit is not a force to be used - He is a divine Person who comes us to uelp us as an advocate, teacher and comforter.

John 14:17
that is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He abides with you and will be in you.


Only given to believers because He dwells with us and in us.

Jesus use the word know not intellectual knowing but experiential knowing. HS was already alongside us

Jesus was pointing to a new reality that woild come after His death, resurrection, and ascension, when the Holy Spirit would dwell within them. That soeaks of Intimacy and Permanence.

Holy Spirit will not come and go but continually dwells with us

We can connect relationally with the Holy Spirit

John 14:18
“I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.


Holy Spirit is like a physical person like Jesus was with His disciples

Through the Holy Spirit we are brought into a relationship with the Father and we are not orphans

Romans 8:15-16
For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, “Abba! Father!” [16] The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God,


He bears witness in our hearts and testify that God is our holy father

The Holy Spirit personally assures and reassures us that we belong to the Father

Application 1:
Develop intimacy with the Holy spirit

How do we do that?

How to develop intimacy with the Holy Spirit?

1. Be aware of His presence
2. Seek to know Him more
3. Speak in tongues

Understand His character, seek to experience Him, know Him personally

The Holy Spirit personally leads and Transforms us

John 14:25-26
“These things I have spoken to you while abiding with you. [26] But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.


One who is called to come alongside to teach us all things (not worldly knowledge) the truth about Jesus and reminds us about everything that Jesus has said and taught

Holy Spirit lead us from within, Prompting us, reminding us, guiding us

Galatians 5:16
But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.


Walking by the Spirit is a lifestyle of daily dependence on and obedience to the Holy Spirit

Walking by the Spirit requires us to stay close, follow His lead, and trust where He is guiding us.

There is a constant battle between Holy Spirit and our self-centred human will

Application 2:
Listen to the Holy Spirit

How to listen to His voice?

1. Be ready to obey when the Holy Spirit speaks
- He is ever willing and ready to speak to us
- What is the posture of our hearts?
- We are less inclined to hear His voice when we put up resistance
- do it quickly

2. Be familiar with God's word
- Parakletos will remind you of what word of God said
- God has already revealed His wisdom through his word

3. Be silent before God
- we are filled with all sorts of noices now
- daily be quiet in God's presence for 5 to 10 minutes
- connect with Holy Spirit to be with Him, not ask for things

Release anger and frustration to the Holy Spirit






Mothers Day

by Wan Leng

John 19:26-27
When Jesus then saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing nearby, He *said to His mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” [27] Then He *said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” From that hour the disciple took her into his own household.


Jesus paused for something deeply personal in His final moment, He made provision for Mary - Mary pain and future, to her security and well being

Every person no matter how powerful, gifted you came into this world through a mother. There is a mother who laboured not only in child birth, in prayer, patience and perseverance. To provide as far as you are able and this glorify our Father

Honour is not conditional and not obligation and certainly not because of any act. It is following the footsteps of Jesus and choosing to love because He first love

Is Mary a perfect mother? Of course not!

Jesus 12 year old, Mary left Jesus behind

Worry less about making perfect decision and focus more on loving them

Anxious children are raised by anxious parents

You will not get everything right. God honour faithfulness over flawlessness

Children need to grow up seeing faith fueled parents

Mary showed remarkable faithfulness and obedience

Mary sought to understand Jesus ministry

Motherhood is not about lalluby or cradle moments but also about cross moments and crossroads but keep believing God's promises will come to pass even beyond what I can see

The God who bring Resurrection will bring out of the cross hope, redemption and new life

Mary could not stop or remove the pain at Jesus crucifixion but she could be present. Stay through every season instead of helping like octopus

Mothers are not kaypohs, their love carry you even when you cannot carry yourself

Our children are people of destiny. God will never let go of them even if we let go. Our children first belong to God first

My role is to bring Godly influence in my children formation

Neither am I a random choice, I am chosen. Parenting is not ownership but stewardship requiring surrendering and release

Every child is a divine trust. Every life we influence is a God-given responsibility. If God has placed a child in your care, you have a mission from Him.

A sacred exchange took place to Mary when Jesus said to Mary and John.

Why didn't Jesus said Mary go back to your biological sons?

Possibly at that time jesus biological brothers did not yet believe in Jesus

Jesus was forming a new kind of family, a family of God by faith and obedience to the father, family beyond bloodline

Matthew 12:50
For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.”


No one stands at the cross stands alone

God gives people who Stand in the gap, embody care and presence not bound by blood but by love

Who is your 'Mary'?
Who is your 'John'?

Technology can never replace presence

we are not just individuals being redeemed. We are a family being formed, a family of disciples, walking this road together, following Jesus om the way of the cross.